I am a switch; that is I like being both Dom and sub, but not necessarily with the same people. I am 36, six foot tall, with a 34-inch waist.
I enjoy playing both roles so long as it is safe, sane and consensual.
I normally keep my body shaved, except for a small area above my genitals and a small area on my chest, for appearance sake on the beach.
In my last relationship we alternated roles, although she was more of a coward then I was.
I am single. I use my best friend as a silent alarm; that is I give her details when I meet someone for the first time.
I enjoy fulfilling other people’s fantasies, including discreet public play.
When I am Dom:
I enjoy using my skills, to take you out of your mind space into your body, then take you, almost out of your body, into a different space.
I negotiate before play to find out your fantasies and limits. I play safe and respect your limits.
You will feel vulnerable, but I will control the intensity, as necessary within your limits, by closely monitoring you.
The best bit is when I get a thank you afterwards.
When I am a sub:
I enjoy feeling vulnerable; particularly being naked surrounded by dressed people, so long as it is warm, this helps me get out of vanilla mind space.
I enjoy giving over power and having an audience.
I enjoy being spanked, paddled, and light strokes with the cane, starting gently but building up slowly, candle wax dripped on my genitals.
My pain threshold increases as my endorphins increase and my bottom warms up.
The best bit is a hug afterwards.
Misc:
I enjoy wearing ‘male’ skirts, especially the attention I get wearing a kilt in public.
